And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the wedding; and the door was shut. “Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, ‘Lord, Lord, open to us!’

Then all those virgins arose and trimmed their lamps. And the foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ But the wise answered, saying, ‘No, lest there should not be enough for us and you;

It was my wedding day just over 15 years ago and to everyones surprise, I was unusually calm. What added to my calm was the fact that both the bride and I had arrived with our parties early to the venue.